In today's relationships, where time is precious and gifts are thankless there are right ways and wrong ways to give a woman exotic lingerie. I will try to relay a fool proof way of giving your exotic lingerie, a way that not only will the woman in your life thank you, but also eagerly wear your lingerie gift, all men know, that women know, we only give exotic lingerie for one thing, which now means our exotic lingerie gift has lost its edge.

Rule 1. Phone her from work / at work, tell her you love / care about her, miss her, that you are sorry you have not shown her much attention lately, tonight you will make it up to her.

Rule 2. Choose your exotic lingerie carefully, come on, we all know she will never wear that, or will run a mile if you even suggest this, or will slap you for thinking she is 'that kind of girl'. Choose a piece of lingerie that whilst looks erotic, will cover the parts of her body she is embarrased by, will show her curves off, but not her flaws.

Rule 3. Wrap your exotic lingerie with love. Pressentation is the key, don't give her your lingerie gift in the department stores bag, or throw it at her as she walks in.

Rule 4. Try to get home before she does, steady your nerves, calm down. If you appear excited, you will have blown your cover. Whatever you want to prepare for the giving of the gift lingerie, hide. Hide the candles, hide the drink, hide the chocolates, hide the roses.

Rule 5. The woman in your life may arrive home in a snot, be tired, be wound up etc. Dont bite back. Let her rant at you, just keep telling yourself its not her fault. Remember, just because you know you have a special night in store, she may have had a bad day, a bad drive home etc.

Rule 6. Pour your girlfriend / wife her favourite drink. If she doesn't drink alchol, no worries, pour her tea, coffee cola, what ever. Suggest she relaxes in her favourite seat, but DO NOT put the tv on, TV is the quickest mood / conversation killer ever. Put some mellow tunes on instead, not classical, unless your girlfriend / wife is into classical, but mellow tunes.

Rule 7. Bring your choice of flowers in, roses are so yesterday, what flowers does she love? If it is roses, fine, but often it isn't. Sit with your wife / girlfriend, talk, about anything but the weather and work. Talk about days out you have had, want to do, anything light and fluffy, to ge her mood up, make her smile, laugh etc. A happy woman means a happy man.

Rule 8. Bring in your lovingly wrapped exotic lingerie. Present it to her, say how great she would look in the exotic lingerie but DO NOT push her to wear it right there and then. If she isn't eager to put it on right now, no worries, go back a couple of steps, make her feel good, make her happy. You will get your reward, at some point you will have earned the right to see your girlfriend / wife in the erotic lingerie.

If you have followed this guide to the letter, without rush or short cuts, you should be well on your way to enjoying your partner dresses in your gift of exotic lingerie, instead of having the lingerie shoved in a dark draw somewhere.

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