Birthday lingerie

Should I buy my partner lingerie for their birthday?

What a topic of discussion and confusion this one is. My advice is, yes, but not on its own and definitely not erotic. They will then think you have bought the lingerie for yourself.

Buy your lady a sexy, quality basque or corset, or a gorgeous bra and knicker set. Buy the quality lingerie, wrap the lingerie in expensive paper, complete the gift with a box of chocolates and a bunch of flowers.

This will show the lady that you are not after sex, but are considering her feeling, you will be welcome in the bedroom much sooner this way.

Once in the bedroom, don't go for the goal straight off, caress her, kiss her all over, not hurried kisses, but slow sensual kisses. Massage in an unhurried fashion works well. Keep away from the goal, other than an accidental brush past, hardly any pressure at all. Take the lingerie off slowly.

If all this is too much effort, find yourself a wham bam thank you mam kind of girl.